Here at Tomato Pie, we’re celebrating the release of my biblical historical fiction ebook “Working Mother.” Today is the Feast of St. Francis de Sales, patron saint of both writers and of the deaf. Thus, we’ve gotta do a two-fer on this special feast, and you’ll see why shortly. Let’s meet Allison Gingras!
What’s your name?
Tell us a little bit about your family.
Married to Kevin for 25 years, he was actually my Junior AND Senior Prom Date!! 3 kids – 2 boys Ian 19 & Adam 15, and our little girl Faith, 8, who is profoundly deaf and adopted from China.
Imagine you’re at a dinner party. Someone asks the question, “So, what do you do?” What’s your answer?
I am a Catholic inspiration speaker, radio host, blogger and retreat leader.
[Erin here. Allison also writes the “Words With” apps, so check those out, too!]
How do you think God uses your job to help shape you into all He made you to be?
He is constantly teaching me. As I prepare presentations or radio show content, I inevitably learn something new about God and myself as His daughter. In my ministry work, I encourage people to grow in faith by participating in Sacraments, Prayer and in reading Scripture. Striving to be an authentic witness, means practicing what I preach – which in the end makes me into the woman God has created me to be (or at least on my way!)
What benefits (besides the economical) have you seen to your family that are a direct result of your work away from home?
My ministry takes me away many weekends, I see that my being away forces everyone to step it up responsibilities at home. My children were homeschooled, and for the older ones especially, they become so dependent on me sometimes they’d take my doing things for them for granted. The boys have taken on doing their own laundry (yeah – one of my least favorite jobs), they spend more time with their little sister, and lastly, I find we enjoy the time we have together more.
How do you balance any guilty feelings you might have in the tension between your workplace and your homespace?
This is probably one of my biggest challenges, since my ‘work’ is also my faith. It is hard for me to stop working – there is a very thin line between spending time contemplating God and different aspects of the faith as work and reflecting on faith for the sake of faith. Having said that, I try to work at my desk – and when I get up from that desk, I leave behind work and focus on family.
What is one thing that you would ask the people in your life to do to support you more?
Honestly, more housework – they do great with their laundry and the dishes but It would be great if someone else would dust, vacuum, wash the windows or clean the bathroom now or then. They will if I ask but not as well as I might like (I know I should be grateful for the help not looking for perfection) and sometimes it would be just nice to have them see if needs to be done and do it. Often I am just too busy to remember to ask for help.
I can so relate to that last bit. Thank you, Allison!
Are you a working mother? So was (and is) the Blessed Mother! If you enjoyed this interview and would like to celebrate working motherhood some more, please consider getting a copy of my $.99 historical fiction ebook, “Working Mother.”